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I have recently had contact with an acquaintance from Eastern Africa (I think from Ethiopia or Somalia). When the person greeted me, she shook my hand while holding her elbow of the right arm with the left hand (see image). After this happened a few times, I figured it was not just a coincidence.
Does this gesture have any meaning?

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I have recently had contact with an acquaintance from Eastern Africa (I think from Ethiopia or Somalia). When the person greeted me, she shook my hand while holding her elbow of the right arm with the left hand (see image). After this happened a few times, I figured it was not just a coincidence.
Does this gesture have any meaning?

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I'm curious - do they put their hand over top their elbow or underneath? (your image doesn't show that, ha!)
â hurleystylee
Jan 18 at 16:32
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Some of the answers, IMO, are lacking and just saying "It's just because..." - while I'm sure nowadays it's true, I'd think there's some origin of the gesture? You could argue we shake hands, just because it's rude not to ...but the origin is generally to show you're not holding a weapon. I wonder when the addition of touching your elbow was introduced in Africa, as it is apparently very commonplace. (Maybe to show you're not hiding a weapon in that other hand?)
â BruceWayne
Jan 18 at 18:21
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I feel like it's similar in (at least some parts of) Asia, where people would hold their wrist with their left hand while shaking your hand, maybe also how they would hand you their business cards with two hands. It's a form of respect.
â user276648
Jan 19 at 6:35
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Interesting --- in other cultures, holding your inner elbow is an insulting gesture.
â Federico Poloni
Jan 19 at 8:02
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@FedericoPoloni It is not the "holding the inner elbow"; moving the forearm up is a part of the gesture. Without that part the movement means nothing.
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I have recently had contact with an acquaintance from Eastern Africa (I think from Ethiopia or Somalia). When the person greeted me, she shook my hand while holding her elbow of the right arm with the left hand (see image). After this happened a few times, I figured it was not just a coincidence.
Does this gesture have any meaning?

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I have recently had contact with an acquaintance from Eastern Africa (I think from Ethiopia or Somalia). When the person greeted me, she shook my hand while holding her elbow of the right arm with the left hand (see image). After this happened a few times, I figured it was not just a coincidence.
Does this gesture have any meaning?

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I'm curious - do they put their hand over top their elbow or underneath? (your image doesn't show that, ha!)
â hurleystylee
Jan 18 at 16:32
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Some of the answers, IMO, are lacking and just saying "It's just because..." - while I'm sure nowadays it's true, I'd think there's some origin of the gesture? You could argue we shake hands, just because it's rude not to ...but the origin is generally to show you're not holding a weapon. I wonder when the addition of touching your elbow was introduced in Africa, as it is apparently very commonplace. (Maybe to show you're not hiding a weapon in that other hand?)
â BruceWayne
Jan 18 at 18:21
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I feel like it's similar in (at least some parts of) Asia, where people would hold their wrist with their left hand while shaking your hand, maybe also how they would hand you their business cards with two hands. It's a form of respect.
â user276648
Jan 19 at 6:35
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Interesting --- in other cultures, holding your inner elbow is an insulting gesture.
â Federico Poloni
Jan 19 at 8:02
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@FedericoPoloni It is not the "holding the inner elbow"; moving the forearm up is a part of the gesture. Without that part the movement means nothing.
â SJuan76
Jan 19 at 10:37
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I'm curious - do they put their hand over top their elbow or underneath? (your image doesn't show that, ha!)
â hurleystylee
Jan 18 at 16:32
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Some of the answers, IMO, are lacking and just saying "It's just because..." - while I'm sure nowadays it's true, I'd think there's some origin of the gesture? You could argue we shake hands, just because it's rude not to ...but the origin is generally to show you're not holding a weapon. I wonder when the addition of touching your elbow was introduced in Africa, as it is apparently very commonplace. (Maybe to show you're not hiding a weapon in that other hand?)
â BruceWayne
Jan 18 at 18:21
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I feel like it's similar in (at least some parts of) Asia, where people would hold their wrist with their left hand while shaking your hand, maybe also how they would hand you their business cards with two hands. It's a form of respect.
â user276648
Jan 19 at 6:35
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Interesting --- in other cultures, holding your inner elbow is an insulting gesture.
â Federico Poloni
Jan 19 at 8:02
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@FedericoPoloni It is not the "holding the inner elbow"; moving the forearm up is a part of the gesture. Without that part the movement means nothing.
â SJuan76
Jan 19 at 10:37
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I'm curious - do they put their hand over top their elbow or underneath? (your image doesn't show that, ha!)
â hurleystylee
Jan 18 at 16:32
I'm curious - do they put their hand over top their elbow or underneath? (your image doesn't show that, ha!)
â hurleystylee
Jan 18 at 16:32
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Some of the answers, IMO, are lacking and just saying "It's just because..." - while I'm sure nowadays it's true, I'd think there's some origin of the gesture? You could argue we shake hands, just because it's rude not to ...but the origin is generally to show you're not holding a weapon. I wonder when the addition of touching your elbow was introduced in Africa, as it is apparently very commonplace. (Maybe to show you're not hiding a weapon in that other hand?)
â BruceWayne
Jan 18 at 18:21
Some of the answers, IMO, are lacking and just saying "It's just because..." - while I'm sure nowadays it's true, I'd think there's some origin of the gesture? You could argue we shake hands, just because it's rude not to ...but the origin is generally to show you're not holding a weapon. I wonder when the addition of touching your elbow was introduced in Africa, as it is apparently very commonplace. (Maybe to show you're not hiding a weapon in that other hand?)
â BruceWayne
Jan 18 at 18:21
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I feel like it's similar in (at least some parts of) Asia, where people would hold their wrist with their left hand while shaking your hand, maybe also how they would hand you their business cards with two hands. It's a form of respect.
â user276648
Jan 19 at 6:35
I feel like it's similar in (at least some parts of) Asia, where people would hold their wrist with their left hand while shaking your hand, maybe also how they would hand you their business cards with two hands. It's a form of respect.
â user276648
Jan 19 at 6:35
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Interesting --- in other cultures, holding your inner elbow is an insulting gesture.
â Federico Poloni
Jan 19 at 8:02
Interesting --- in other cultures, holding your inner elbow is an insulting gesture.
â Federico Poloni
Jan 19 at 8:02
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@FedericoPoloni It is not the "holding the inner elbow"; moving the forearm up is a part of the gesture. Without that part the movement means nothing.
â SJuan76
Jan 19 at 10:37
@FedericoPoloni It is not the "holding the inner elbow"; moving the forearm up is a part of the gesture. Without that part the movement means nothing.
â SJuan76
Jan 19 at 10:37
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It's a sign of respect. A bit like using both hands to shake yours. (Source: I lived in Africa for something like 7 years.)
I personally found this more common in West Africa than East Africa.
Edit: Perhaps as clarification, the right elbow typically is held with the left hand, as if to support the right arm. But, I've also often seen 'just' touching the right forearm with the fingers of the left hand.
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I encountered this a lot in rural Malawi and not so much in rural Tanzania. My theory is that because Malawi receives few tourists, and fewer Americans, and especially fewer Americans with my skin tone, it was a bigger deal when I showed up in a village.
â choster
Jan 17 at 17:30
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Come to think of it, this was also more common when I lived in Zimbabwe.
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Jan 17 at 17:36
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I can confirm that this is true for most cultures in Zimbabwe and South Africa as well. It is a sign of respect and I was taught it signified the weight of the other persons hand that you could not shake theirs with only your one.
â Galaxy
Jan 18 at 11:22
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Confirmed here in Uganda. You just do it because its rude not to
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Jan 18 at 14:57
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As MastaBaba said, it's a sign of respect. As an Ethiopian, most of us were taught as children to hold our hand (anywhere on the forearm) when greeting elders (basically anyone older). It is considered rude to shake hands without holding one's arm, and in most cases the person (elder) will be offended. Sometimes, the person may also look down during the handshake, which is also another sign of respect.
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Having lived in Uganda Africa for almost 8 years I think I can answer your question.
Here in Uganda its a sign of respect. I often place my hand on my elbow when shaking the hands of the elderly because I acknowledge their old age and their knowledge. It means they acknowledge you and respect you. Like @Kidus answered its considered rude to not place your other hand on some part of your forearm. Sometimes the person will nod his/her head toward the ground while shaking your hand, Its also a sign of respect and it would be disrespectful not to follow suit.
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I think it is the respectful way of shaking hands. I assume this from reading The No 1 Ladies Detective Agency books (set in Botswana) where the main character refers to this as the proper way of shaking hands. A foreigner who shows respect by shaking hands this way goes up in the characterâÂÂs estimation.
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With all due respect, an assumption based on a fiction book has little value compared to an answer from someone who lived in Africa.
â Dmitry Grigoryev
Jan 18 at 12:13
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@DmitryGrigoryev with all due respect, it is still an accepted source. We can assume the author did some research. Were we in Skeptics.SE maybe it would not be ok, but bashing a newbie poster is not OK. And Brontew, welcome to the Stack Exchange. I hope you stay around and build with us this awesome knowledge base.
â Mindwin
Jan 18 at 15:31
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@Mindwin "bashing a newbie poster is not OK" <- Comments and votes on an answer are supposed to be based on their contents alone, not who happened to write it.
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@Mindwin You seem to disagree with my comment. Would you seriously prefer traveling advice based on a fiction book to a first hand experience? And how exactly is my comment "bashing"? Can you suggest a polite version of it?
â Dmitry Grigoryev
Jan 18 at 21:01
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@DmitryGrigoryev what I prefer and upvote has nothing to do with the validity of posts. Be welcoming, be patient, and assume good intentions. Don't expect new users to know all the rules â they don't. And be patient while they learn. If you're here for help, make it as easy as possible for others to help you. Everyone here is volunteering, and no one responds well to demands for help. - what I read from your comment above, is "Dear user, your answer is a piece of ****, learn 2 post". It is not constructive.
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Just as another place where it is done, this is the standard way of shaking hands in the sport of Taekwondo. See this page for example:
Shaking Hands
A Taekwon-Do handshake is always given with two hands. With the right hand extended, place the left hand palm down under the right elbow. This is a gesture of respect and should be used at all times, even outside the dojang, when giving or receiving items, as well as when shaking hands.
Welcome to TSE. This answer was flagged for quality, possibly because it doesn't address the actual question that was asked, about the gesture as used in East Africa. At least, you have not presented a case connecting the two, as it's extremely unlikely that formal practice in a Korean martial art is what informs the folk practice on the other side of the hemisphere. As such, it might have been better-received as a comment.
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@choster Yeah, I suppose. The question title is Handshake while holding own right elbow and the only actual question in the text is Does this gesture have any meaning? so I thought the relevance is direct, if not specifically for Africa.
â Peter K.
Jan 19 at 17:32
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This is exactly what came to mind for me when I saw the question title. Even pouring drinks is done in the same way.
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My experience is with Nepal, transaction like paying or gifting are conducted with the right hand. Placing the left hand on the right elbow connotes greater respect or formality to the transaction. Adding the hand to elbow is like changing "Its nice to meet you" to "Its very nice to meet you" or "Thank you" to "Thank you, sir".
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I'm not sure of the connection between your two sentences here, can you elaborate?
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It's a sign of respect. A bit like using both hands to shake yours. (Source: I lived in Africa for something like 7 years.)
I personally found this more common in West Africa than East Africa.
Edit: Perhaps as clarification, the right elbow typically is held with the left hand, as if to support the right arm. But, I've also often seen 'just' touching the right forearm with the fingers of the left hand.
10
I encountered this a lot in rural Malawi and not so much in rural Tanzania. My theory is that because Malawi receives few tourists, and fewer Americans, and especially fewer Americans with my skin tone, it was a bigger deal when I showed up in a village.
â choster
Jan 17 at 17:30
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Come to think of it, this was also more common when I lived in Zimbabwe.
â MastaBaba
Jan 17 at 17:36
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I can confirm that this is true for most cultures in Zimbabwe and South Africa as well. It is a sign of respect and I was taught it signified the weight of the other persons hand that you could not shake theirs with only your one.
â Galaxy
Jan 18 at 11:22
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Confirmed here in Uganda. You just do it because its rude not to
â E. Huckabee
Jan 18 at 14:57
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up vote
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It's a sign of respect. A bit like using both hands to shake yours. (Source: I lived in Africa for something like 7 years.)
I personally found this more common in West Africa than East Africa.
Edit: Perhaps as clarification, the right elbow typically is held with the left hand, as if to support the right arm. But, I've also often seen 'just' touching the right forearm with the fingers of the left hand.
10
I encountered this a lot in rural Malawi and not so much in rural Tanzania. My theory is that because Malawi receives few tourists, and fewer Americans, and especially fewer Americans with my skin tone, it was a bigger deal when I showed up in a village.
â choster
Jan 17 at 17:30
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Come to think of it, this was also more common when I lived in Zimbabwe.
â MastaBaba
Jan 17 at 17:36
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I can confirm that this is true for most cultures in Zimbabwe and South Africa as well. It is a sign of respect and I was taught it signified the weight of the other persons hand that you could not shake theirs with only your one.
â Galaxy
Jan 18 at 11:22
2
Confirmed here in Uganda. You just do it because its rude not to
â E. Huckabee
Jan 18 at 14:57
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up vote
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up vote
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It's a sign of respect. A bit like using both hands to shake yours. (Source: I lived in Africa for something like 7 years.)
I personally found this more common in West Africa than East Africa.
Edit: Perhaps as clarification, the right elbow typically is held with the left hand, as if to support the right arm. But, I've also often seen 'just' touching the right forearm with the fingers of the left hand.
It's a sign of respect. A bit like using both hands to shake yours. (Source: I lived in Africa for something like 7 years.)
I personally found this more common in West Africa than East Africa.
Edit: Perhaps as clarification, the right elbow typically is held with the left hand, as if to support the right arm. But, I've also often seen 'just' touching the right forearm with the fingers of the left hand.
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I encountered this a lot in rural Malawi and not so much in rural Tanzania. My theory is that because Malawi receives few tourists, and fewer Americans, and especially fewer Americans with my skin tone, it was a bigger deal when I showed up in a village.
â choster
Jan 17 at 17:30
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Come to think of it, this was also more common when I lived in Zimbabwe.
â MastaBaba
Jan 17 at 17:36
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I can confirm that this is true for most cultures in Zimbabwe and South Africa as well. It is a sign of respect and I was taught it signified the weight of the other persons hand that you could not shake theirs with only your one.
â Galaxy
Jan 18 at 11:22
2
Confirmed here in Uganda. You just do it because its rude not to
â E. Huckabee
Jan 18 at 14:57
add a comment |Â
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I encountered this a lot in rural Malawi and not so much in rural Tanzania. My theory is that because Malawi receives few tourists, and fewer Americans, and especially fewer Americans with my skin tone, it was a bigger deal when I showed up in a village.
â choster
Jan 17 at 17:30
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Come to think of it, this was also more common when I lived in Zimbabwe.
â MastaBaba
Jan 17 at 17:36
14
I can confirm that this is true for most cultures in Zimbabwe and South Africa as well. It is a sign of respect and I was taught it signified the weight of the other persons hand that you could not shake theirs with only your one.
â Galaxy
Jan 18 at 11:22
2
Confirmed here in Uganda. You just do it because its rude not to
â E. Huckabee
Jan 18 at 14:57
10
10
I encountered this a lot in rural Malawi and not so much in rural Tanzania. My theory is that because Malawi receives few tourists, and fewer Americans, and especially fewer Americans with my skin tone, it was a bigger deal when I showed up in a village.
â choster
Jan 17 at 17:30
I encountered this a lot in rural Malawi and not so much in rural Tanzania. My theory is that because Malawi receives few tourists, and fewer Americans, and especially fewer Americans with my skin tone, it was a bigger deal when I showed up in a village.
â choster
Jan 17 at 17:30
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Come to think of it, this was also more common when I lived in Zimbabwe.
â MastaBaba
Jan 17 at 17:36
Come to think of it, this was also more common when I lived in Zimbabwe.
â MastaBaba
Jan 17 at 17:36
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I can confirm that this is true for most cultures in Zimbabwe and South Africa as well. It is a sign of respect and I was taught it signified the weight of the other persons hand that you could not shake theirs with only your one.
â Galaxy
Jan 18 at 11:22
I can confirm that this is true for most cultures in Zimbabwe and South Africa as well. It is a sign of respect and I was taught it signified the weight of the other persons hand that you could not shake theirs with only your one.
â Galaxy
Jan 18 at 11:22
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Confirmed here in Uganda. You just do it because its rude not to
â E. Huckabee
Jan 18 at 14:57
Confirmed here in Uganda. You just do it because its rude not to
â E. Huckabee
Jan 18 at 14:57
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As MastaBaba said, it's a sign of respect. As an Ethiopian, most of us were taught as children to hold our hand (anywhere on the forearm) when greeting elders (basically anyone older). It is considered rude to shake hands without holding one's arm, and in most cases the person (elder) will be offended. Sometimes, the person may also look down during the handshake, which is also another sign of respect.
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As MastaBaba said, it's a sign of respect. As an Ethiopian, most of us were taught as children to hold our hand (anywhere on the forearm) when greeting elders (basically anyone older). It is considered rude to shake hands without holding one's arm, and in most cases the person (elder) will be offended. Sometimes, the person may also look down during the handshake, which is also another sign of respect.
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As MastaBaba said, it's a sign of respect. As an Ethiopian, most of us were taught as children to hold our hand (anywhere on the forearm) when greeting elders (basically anyone older). It is considered rude to shake hands without holding one's arm, and in most cases the person (elder) will be offended. Sometimes, the person may also look down during the handshake, which is also another sign of respect.
As MastaBaba said, it's a sign of respect. As an Ethiopian, most of us were taught as children to hold our hand (anywhere on the forearm) when greeting elders (basically anyone older). It is considered rude to shake hands without holding one's arm, and in most cases the person (elder) will be offended. Sometimes, the person may also look down during the handshake, which is also another sign of respect.
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Having lived in Uganda Africa for almost 8 years I think I can answer your question.
Here in Uganda its a sign of respect. I often place my hand on my elbow when shaking the hands of the elderly because I acknowledge their old age and their knowledge. It means they acknowledge you and respect you. Like @Kidus answered its considered rude to not place your other hand on some part of your forearm. Sometimes the person will nod his/her head toward the ground while shaking your hand, Its also a sign of respect and it would be disrespectful not to follow suit.
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Having lived in Uganda Africa for almost 8 years I think I can answer your question.
Here in Uganda its a sign of respect. I often place my hand on my elbow when shaking the hands of the elderly because I acknowledge their old age and their knowledge. It means they acknowledge you and respect you. Like @Kidus answered its considered rude to not place your other hand on some part of your forearm. Sometimes the person will nod his/her head toward the ground while shaking your hand, Its also a sign of respect and it would be disrespectful not to follow suit.
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Having lived in Uganda Africa for almost 8 years I think I can answer your question.
Here in Uganda its a sign of respect. I often place my hand on my elbow when shaking the hands of the elderly because I acknowledge their old age and their knowledge. It means they acknowledge you and respect you. Like @Kidus answered its considered rude to not place your other hand on some part of your forearm. Sometimes the person will nod his/her head toward the ground while shaking your hand, Its also a sign of respect and it would be disrespectful not to follow suit.
Having lived in Uganda Africa for almost 8 years I think I can answer your question.
Here in Uganda its a sign of respect. I often place my hand on my elbow when shaking the hands of the elderly because I acknowledge their old age and their knowledge. It means they acknowledge you and respect you. Like @Kidus answered its considered rude to not place your other hand on some part of your forearm. Sometimes the person will nod his/her head toward the ground while shaking your hand, Its also a sign of respect and it would be disrespectful not to follow suit.
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I think it is the respectful way of shaking hands. I assume this from reading The No 1 Ladies Detective Agency books (set in Botswana) where the main character refers to this as the proper way of shaking hands. A foreigner who shows respect by shaking hands this way goes up in the characterâÂÂs estimation.
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With all due respect, an assumption based on a fiction book has little value compared to an answer from someone who lived in Africa.
â Dmitry Grigoryev
Jan 18 at 12:13
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@DmitryGrigoryev with all due respect, it is still an accepted source. We can assume the author did some research. Were we in Skeptics.SE maybe it would not be ok, but bashing a newbie poster is not OK. And Brontew, welcome to the Stack Exchange. I hope you stay around and build with us this awesome knowledge base.
â Mindwin
Jan 18 at 15:31
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@Mindwin "bashing a newbie poster is not OK" <- Comments and votes on an answer are supposed to be based on their contents alone, not who happened to write it.
â pipe
Jan 18 at 20:00
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@Mindwin You seem to disagree with my comment. Would you seriously prefer traveling advice based on a fiction book to a first hand experience? And how exactly is my comment "bashing"? Can you suggest a polite version of it?
â Dmitry Grigoryev
Jan 18 at 21:01
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@DmitryGrigoryev what I prefer and upvote has nothing to do with the validity of posts. Be welcoming, be patient, and assume good intentions. Don't expect new users to know all the rules â they don't. And be patient while they learn. If you're here for help, make it as easy as possible for others to help you. Everyone here is volunteering, and no one responds well to demands for help. - what I read from your comment above, is "Dear user, your answer is a piece of ****, learn 2 post". It is not constructive.
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I think it is the respectful way of shaking hands. I assume this from reading The No 1 Ladies Detective Agency books (set in Botswana) where the main character refers to this as the proper way of shaking hands. A foreigner who shows respect by shaking hands this way goes up in the characterâÂÂs estimation.
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With all due respect, an assumption based on a fiction book has little value compared to an answer from someone who lived in Africa.
â Dmitry Grigoryev
Jan 18 at 12:13
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@DmitryGrigoryev with all due respect, it is still an accepted source. We can assume the author did some research. Were we in Skeptics.SE maybe it would not be ok, but bashing a newbie poster is not OK. And Brontew, welcome to the Stack Exchange. I hope you stay around and build with us this awesome knowledge base.
â Mindwin
Jan 18 at 15:31
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@Mindwin "bashing a newbie poster is not OK" <- Comments and votes on an answer are supposed to be based on their contents alone, not who happened to write it.
â pipe
Jan 18 at 20:00
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@Mindwin You seem to disagree with my comment. Would you seriously prefer traveling advice based on a fiction book to a first hand experience? And how exactly is my comment "bashing"? Can you suggest a polite version of it?
â Dmitry Grigoryev
Jan 18 at 21:01
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@DmitryGrigoryev what I prefer and upvote has nothing to do with the validity of posts. Be welcoming, be patient, and assume good intentions. Don't expect new users to know all the rules â they don't. And be patient while they learn. If you're here for help, make it as easy as possible for others to help you. Everyone here is volunteering, and no one responds well to demands for help. - what I read from your comment above, is "Dear user, your answer is a piece of ****, learn 2 post". It is not constructive.
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Jan 19 at 11:44
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I think it is the respectful way of shaking hands. I assume this from reading The No 1 Ladies Detective Agency books (set in Botswana) where the main character refers to this as the proper way of shaking hands. A foreigner who shows respect by shaking hands this way goes up in the characterâÂÂs estimation.
I think it is the respectful way of shaking hands. I assume this from reading The No 1 Ladies Detective Agency books (set in Botswana) where the main character refers to this as the proper way of shaking hands. A foreigner who shows respect by shaking hands this way goes up in the characterâÂÂs estimation.
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With all due respect, an assumption based on a fiction book has little value compared to an answer from someone who lived in Africa.
â Dmitry Grigoryev
Jan 18 at 12:13
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@DmitryGrigoryev with all due respect, it is still an accepted source. We can assume the author did some research. Were we in Skeptics.SE maybe it would not be ok, but bashing a newbie poster is not OK. And Brontew, welcome to the Stack Exchange. I hope you stay around and build with us this awesome knowledge base.
â Mindwin
Jan 18 at 15:31
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@Mindwin "bashing a newbie poster is not OK" <- Comments and votes on an answer are supposed to be based on their contents alone, not who happened to write it.
â pipe
Jan 18 at 20:00
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@Mindwin You seem to disagree with my comment. Would you seriously prefer traveling advice based on a fiction book to a first hand experience? And how exactly is my comment "bashing"? Can you suggest a polite version of it?
â Dmitry Grigoryev
Jan 18 at 21:01
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@DmitryGrigoryev what I prefer and upvote has nothing to do with the validity of posts. Be welcoming, be patient, and assume good intentions. Don't expect new users to know all the rules â they don't. And be patient while they learn. If you're here for help, make it as easy as possible for others to help you. Everyone here is volunteering, and no one responds well to demands for help. - what I read from your comment above, is "Dear user, your answer is a piece of ****, learn 2 post". It is not constructive.
â Mindwin
Jan 19 at 11:44
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With all due respect, an assumption based on a fiction book has little value compared to an answer from someone who lived in Africa.
â Dmitry Grigoryev
Jan 18 at 12:13
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@DmitryGrigoryev with all due respect, it is still an accepted source. We can assume the author did some research. Were we in Skeptics.SE maybe it would not be ok, but bashing a newbie poster is not OK. And Brontew, welcome to the Stack Exchange. I hope you stay around and build with us this awesome knowledge base.
â Mindwin
Jan 18 at 15:31
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@Mindwin "bashing a newbie poster is not OK" <- Comments and votes on an answer are supposed to be based on their contents alone, not who happened to write it.
â pipe
Jan 18 at 20:00
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@Mindwin You seem to disagree with my comment. Would you seriously prefer traveling advice based on a fiction book to a first hand experience? And how exactly is my comment "bashing"? Can you suggest a polite version of it?
â Dmitry Grigoryev
Jan 18 at 21:01
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@DmitryGrigoryev what I prefer and upvote has nothing to do with the validity of posts. Be welcoming, be patient, and assume good intentions. Don't expect new users to know all the rules â they don't. And be patient while they learn. If you're here for help, make it as easy as possible for others to help you. Everyone here is volunteering, and no one responds well to demands for help. - what I read from your comment above, is "Dear user, your answer is a piece of ****, learn 2 post". It is not constructive.
â Mindwin
Jan 19 at 11:44
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With all due respect, an assumption based on a fiction book has little value compared to an answer from someone who lived in Africa.
â Dmitry Grigoryev
Jan 18 at 12:13
With all due respect, an assumption based on a fiction book has little value compared to an answer from someone who lived in Africa.
â Dmitry Grigoryev
Jan 18 at 12:13
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@DmitryGrigoryev with all due respect, it is still an accepted source. We can assume the author did some research. Were we in Skeptics.SE maybe it would not be ok, but bashing a newbie poster is not OK. And Brontew, welcome to the Stack Exchange. I hope you stay around and build with us this awesome knowledge base.
â Mindwin
Jan 18 at 15:31
@DmitryGrigoryev with all due respect, it is still an accepted source. We can assume the author did some research. Were we in Skeptics.SE maybe it would not be ok, but bashing a newbie poster is not OK. And Brontew, welcome to the Stack Exchange. I hope you stay around and build with us this awesome knowledge base.
â Mindwin
Jan 18 at 15:31
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@Mindwin "bashing a newbie poster is not OK" <- Comments and votes on an answer are supposed to be based on their contents alone, not who happened to write it.
â pipe
Jan 18 at 20:00
@Mindwin "bashing a newbie poster is not OK" <- Comments and votes on an answer are supposed to be based on their contents alone, not who happened to write it.
â pipe
Jan 18 at 20:00
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@Mindwin You seem to disagree with my comment. Would you seriously prefer traveling advice based on a fiction book to a first hand experience? And how exactly is my comment "bashing"? Can you suggest a polite version of it?
â Dmitry Grigoryev
Jan 18 at 21:01
@Mindwin You seem to disagree with my comment. Would you seriously prefer traveling advice based on a fiction book to a first hand experience? And how exactly is my comment "bashing"? Can you suggest a polite version of it?
â Dmitry Grigoryev
Jan 18 at 21:01
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@DmitryGrigoryev what I prefer and upvote has nothing to do with the validity of posts. Be welcoming, be patient, and assume good intentions. Don't expect new users to know all the rules â they don't. And be patient while they learn. If you're here for help, make it as easy as possible for others to help you. Everyone here is volunteering, and no one responds well to demands for help. - what I read from your comment above, is "Dear user, your answer is a piece of ****, learn 2 post". It is not constructive.
â Mindwin
Jan 19 at 11:44
@DmitryGrigoryev what I prefer and upvote has nothing to do with the validity of posts. Be welcoming, be patient, and assume good intentions. Don't expect new users to know all the rules â they don't. And be patient while they learn. If you're here for help, make it as easy as possible for others to help you. Everyone here is volunteering, and no one responds well to demands for help. - what I read from your comment above, is "Dear user, your answer is a piece of ****, learn 2 post". It is not constructive.
â Mindwin
Jan 19 at 11:44
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Just as another place where it is done, this is the standard way of shaking hands in the sport of Taekwondo. See this page for example:
Shaking Hands
A Taekwon-Do handshake is always given with two hands. With the right hand extended, place the left hand palm down under the right elbow. This is a gesture of respect and should be used at all times, even outside the dojang, when giving or receiving items, as well as when shaking hands.
Welcome to TSE. This answer was flagged for quality, possibly because it doesn't address the actual question that was asked, about the gesture as used in East Africa. At least, you have not presented a case connecting the two, as it's extremely unlikely that formal practice in a Korean martial art is what informs the folk practice on the other side of the hemisphere. As such, it might have been better-received as a comment.
â choster
Jan 19 at 15:58
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@choster Yeah, I suppose. The question title is Handshake while holding own right elbow and the only actual question in the text is Does this gesture have any meaning? so I thought the relevance is direct, if not specifically for Africa.
â Peter K.
Jan 19 at 17:32
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This is exactly what came to mind for me when I saw the question title. Even pouring drinks is done in the same way.
â Amani Kilumanga
Jan 20 at 17:20
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Just as another place where it is done, this is the standard way of shaking hands in the sport of Taekwondo. See this page for example:
Shaking Hands
A Taekwon-Do handshake is always given with two hands. With the right hand extended, place the left hand palm down under the right elbow. This is a gesture of respect and should be used at all times, even outside the dojang, when giving or receiving items, as well as when shaking hands.
Welcome to TSE. This answer was flagged for quality, possibly because it doesn't address the actual question that was asked, about the gesture as used in East Africa. At least, you have not presented a case connecting the two, as it's extremely unlikely that formal practice in a Korean martial art is what informs the folk practice on the other side of the hemisphere. As such, it might have been better-received as a comment.
â choster
Jan 19 at 15:58
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@choster Yeah, I suppose. The question title is Handshake while holding own right elbow and the only actual question in the text is Does this gesture have any meaning? so I thought the relevance is direct, if not specifically for Africa.
â Peter K.
Jan 19 at 17:32
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This is exactly what came to mind for me when I saw the question title. Even pouring drinks is done in the same way.
â Amani Kilumanga
Jan 20 at 17:20
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Just as another place where it is done, this is the standard way of shaking hands in the sport of Taekwondo. See this page for example:
Shaking Hands
A Taekwon-Do handshake is always given with two hands. With the right hand extended, place the left hand palm down under the right elbow. This is a gesture of respect and should be used at all times, even outside the dojang, when giving or receiving items, as well as when shaking hands.
Just as another place where it is done, this is the standard way of shaking hands in the sport of Taekwondo. See this page for example:
Shaking Hands
A Taekwon-Do handshake is always given with two hands. With the right hand extended, place the left hand palm down under the right elbow. This is a gesture of respect and should be used at all times, even outside the dojang, when giving or receiving items, as well as when shaking hands.
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Welcome to TSE. This answer was flagged for quality, possibly because it doesn't address the actual question that was asked, about the gesture as used in East Africa. At least, you have not presented a case connecting the two, as it's extremely unlikely that formal practice in a Korean martial art is what informs the folk practice on the other side of the hemisphere. As such, it might have been better-received as a comment.
â choster
Jan 19 at 15:58
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@choster Yeah, I suppose. The question title is Handshake while holding own right elbow and the only actual question in the text is Does this gesture have any meaning? so I thought the relevance is direct, if not specifically for Africa.
â Peter K.
Jan 19 at 17:32
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This is exactly what came to mind for me when I saw the question title. Even pouring drinks is done in the same way.
â Amani Kilumanga
Jan 20 at 17:20
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Welcome to TSE. This answer was flagged for quality, possibly because it doesn't address the actual question that was asked, about the gesture as used in East Africa. At least, you have not presented a case connecting the two, as it's extremely unlikely that formal practice in a Korean martial art is what informs the folk practice on the other side of the hemisphere. As such, it might have been better-received as a comment.
â choster
Jan 19 at 15:58
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@choster Yeah, I suppose. The question title is Handshake while holding own right elbow and the only actual question in the text is Does this gesture have any meaning? so I thought the relevance is direct, if not specifically for Africa.
â Peter K.
Jan 19 at 17:32
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This is exactly what came to mind for me when I saw the question title. Even pouring drinks is done in the same way.
â Amani Kilumanga
Jan 20 at 17:20
Welcome to TSE. This answer was flagged for quality, possibly because it doesn't address the actual question that was asked, about the gesture as used in East Africa. At least, you have not presented a case connecting the two, as it's extremely unlikely that formal practice in a Korean martial art is what informs the folk practice on the other side of the hemisphere. As such, it might have been better-received as a comment.
â choster
Jan 19 at 15:58
Welcome to TSE. This answer was flagged for quality, possibly because it doesn't address the actual question that was asked, about the gesture as used in East Africa. At least, you have not presented a case connecting the two, as it's extremely unlikely that formal practice in a Korean martial art is what informs the folk practice on the other side of the hemisphere. As such, it might have been better-received as a comment.
â choster
Jan 19 at 15:58
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@choster Yeah, I suppose. The question title is Handshake while holding own right elbow and the only actual question in the text is Does this gesture have any meaning? so I thought the relevance is direct, if not specifically for Africa.
â Peter K.
Jan 19 at 17:32
@choster Yeah, I suppose. The question title is Handshake while holding own right elbow and the only actual question in the text is Does this gesture have any meaning? so I thought the relevance is direct, if not specifically for Africa.
â Peter K.
Jan 19 at 17:32
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This is exactly what came to mind for me when I saw the question title. Even pouring drinks is done in the same way.
â Amani Kilumanga
Jan 20 at 17:20
This is exactly what came to mind for me when I saw the question title. Even pouring drinks is done in the same way.
â Amani Kilumanga
Jan 20 at 17:20
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My experience is with Nepal, transaction like paying or gifting are conducted with the right hand. Placing the left hand on the right elbow connotes greater respect or formality to the transaction. Adding the hand to elbow is like changing "Its nice to meet you" to "Its very nice to meet you" or "Thank you" to "Thank you, sir".
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I'm not sure of the connection between your two sentences here, can you elaborate?
â Azor Ahai
Jan 18 at 1:00
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My experience is with Nepal, transaction like paying or gifting are conducted with the right hand. Placing the left hand on the right elbow connotes greater respect or formality to the transaction. Adding the hand to elbow is like changing "Its nice to meet you" to "Its very nice to meet you" or "Thank you" to "Thank you, sir".
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I'm not sure of the connection between your two sentences here, can you elaborate?
â Azor Ahai
Jan 18 at 1:00
@Azor-Ahai Edited
â Jammin4CO
Jan 19 at 21:48
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My experience is with Nepal, transaction like paying or gifting are conducted with the right hand. Placing the left hand on the right elbow connotes greater respect or formality to the transaction. Adding the hand to elbow is like changing "Its nice to meet you" to "Its very nice to meet you" or "Thank you" to "Thank you, sir".
My experience is with Nepal, transaction like paying or gifting are conducted with the right hand. Placing the left hand on the right elbow connotes greater respect or formality to the transaction. Adding the hand to elbow is like changing "Its nice to meet you" to "Its very nice to meet you" or "Thank you" to "Thank you, sir".
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I'm not sure of the connection between your two sentences here, can you elaborate?
â Azor Ahai
Jan 18 at 1:00
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Jan 19 at 21:48
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I'm not sure of the connection between your two sentences here, can you elaborate?
â Azor Ahai
Jan 18 at 1:00
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â Jammin4CO
Jan 19 at 21:48
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I'm not sure of the connection between your two sentences here, can you elaborate?
â Azor Ahai
Jan 18 at 1:00
I'm not sure of the connection between your two sentences here, can you elaborate?
â Azor Ahai
Jan 18 at 1:00
@Azor-Ahai Edited
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Jan 19 at 21:48
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I'm curious - do they put their hand over top their elbow or underneath? (your image doesn't show that, ha!)
â hurleystylee
Jan 18 at 16:32
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Some of the answers, IMO, are lacking and just saying "It's just because..." - while I'm sure nowadays it's true, I'd think there's some origin of the gesture? You could argue we shake hands, just because it's rude not to ...but the origin is generally to show you're not holding a weapon. I wonder when the addition of touching your elbow was introduced in Africa, as it is apparently very commonplace. (Maybe to show you're not hiding a weapon in that other hand?)
â BruceWayne
Jan 18 at 18:21
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I feel like it's similar in (at least some parts of) Asia, where people would hold their wrist with their left hand while shaking your hand, maybe also how they would hand you their business cards with two hands. It's a form of respect.
â user276648
Jan 19 at 6:35
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Interesting --- in other cultures, holding your inner elbow is an insulting gesture.
â Federico Poloni
Jan 19 at 8:02
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@FedericoPoloni It is not the "holding the inner elbow"; moving the forearm up is a part of the gesture. Without that part the movement means nothing.
â SJuan76
Jan 19 at 10:37